Becoming a better person and still ending my people-pleasing ways

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Negativity & Jealousy

As I write this, I am disgusted, annoyed, and bewildered. You see, I have a good friend, who I’ll call opal, who has a beautiful, 16 year old daughter, who I’ll call diamond. Diamond is model material, but she is too short, otherwise, she’d have been “discovered” and working as one by now.  Diamond is …

Stubborn or Integrity?

There is a quote that I love; “One of the truest tests of integrity is its blunt refusal to be compromised.” diploabu  Chinua Achebe quotes I have been accused of being obstinate, closed minded, and basically uninformed because of strong values/beliefs on many things.  Clearly, I love the above quote because my rejection to be compromised …

Control Freaks

Why Is It Always About You The Seven Deadly Sins of Narcissism I really can’t stand to be around control freaks..They grate on the last nerve in my body, I have to control myself so I don’t go off on a rant explainin’ to them that most everything they do, they do wrong..that their way isn’t …

Parenting

<script async src=”//pagead2.googlesyndication.com/pagead/js/adsbygoogle.js”></script><script>     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({          google_ad_client: “ca-pub-9052795430975764”,          enable_page_level_ads: true     });</script>Why can’t these little, beautiful, soft, sweet babies come with instructions?  How much easier would parenting be, if before you left the hospital, you were magically delivered a manual that told you everything about your new baby, how it preferred to be held, …

Chronic Pain

This was first diagnoised as TMJ (Temporomandibular joint disorder), in fact, I believed for several years this was the problem, and was treated and medicated for it, the medication worked because of it’s capability to treat neuropathic pain (Gabapentin (brand name Neurontin) is a pharmaceutical drug, specifically a GABA analogue. It was originally developed for …

Criminal Law – New York State

Pedophilia and Sexual Offending Against Children: Theory, Assessment, and Intervention Assault on childrenOf all the situations I have come into contact with, this is the most disturbing. It became even more disturbing when the defendant would have been found to have had prior arrests and even jail sentences for this crime, yet, were released in …

Fake and obsessed

Can’t live with them and can’t live (the right way) without them! Sterling Silver 2ct Diamond Three Row Bracelet They teach us so many valuable lessons..such as how NOT to be a over-bearing arsehole to our “friends”. They teach us to treat others with respect, fairness, and to deal with them honestly. They teach us …

Something nice!

Now I am compelled to say something nice, after hurling abuse, judging others, and being downright belligerent… There are so many wonderful people out there; I have met some of the nicest people in real life and on the internet. I love the sense of humour, integrity, sincerity, and intellect that my friends have..I love …

Manners, anyone?

I get really angry with people who do you “favours”, but in reality, that favour is cleverly designed to actually help them out. Not to say that helping others isn’t what it is all about, but at least be honest and upfront when you are offering a favour, state that it’s a win-win situation and …

Be a good neighbour

People have become so rude and inconsiderate it astonishes me, There is a lack of compassion for our neighbor, but we will send bundles of money to places like Africa or Haiti..I am not saying when a disaster occurs we all shouldn’t do what we can, I think we definitely should, if one million people sent $1.00…that …